4. Wouldn’t you Prefer To Have Someone To Share This With?
What do you want me to say to this – sure, but unfortunately I’m such a lonely, pathetic friendless fool I couldn’t possibly have found someone to travel with me? Some people will never “get” that solo travel can be a valid, legitimate, conscious choice. You don’t need these people’s understanding, approval or, worse, pity.
5. Won’t You Be Bored/Lonely By Yourself?
The truth is, there may be some boring bits and lonely patches when one takes a solo soujourn, but that’s not what to focus on. There’s also excitement, wonder, stimulation, discovery and a whole host of positives to relish. It’s not hard to meet fellow travelers, especially in the backpacker realm, but even other tiers of tourists can meet people should the solitude get to them. It’s all part of the adventure. Solo travel is not for everyone, but those who embrace it don’t need you to point out these potential negatives.
6. Aren’t You Worried About Safety?
Solo women travelers get this a lot, especially from family but also random strangers they meet on the trip. Yes, there are some vulnerabilities associated with being out there in the world, just like there are back home. Smart solo travelers are usually streetwise and take standard safety precautions. They don’t need you to shake their confidence and fill them with fear.
